Great men and women do not make it for making sake. There are basic principles that which are observed. They make their environment and the things they indulge in themselves work out for goodness in diverse ways. Never mind though. In this article, I would tell you 7 ways to remain focus in life. It is essential in making you the real self and your dreams coming true.
1. MOVE WITH PEOPLE WHO BUY INTO YOUR VISION.
The very first things you need to consider are the individuals you tend to move with. Let us
take a look at something. Someone who likes playing football would move with individuals who play football more especially the position in question. A dancer would not be found in the midst of ‘kente’ weavers. The assumption is that, the more people you move with who have a thing to do with your dreams, the more concentrated you become in riding yours. This is the more reason why a writer is seen reading others hand written works. Rationally, he wants to figure out the style used in that perspective and how to better his. Assuming the writer is concerned about writing topics on love and sex, the writer would approach or read possible great writers who approached such topics. He would be seen with friends who has the writing passion so as his could be made easy. The same applies undoubtedly. If you want any concentration whatsoever, try hard to move or engage yourself with people who are into what you are doing so as not to drive you off your passion.
2. TUNE YOUR ENVIRONMENT AND FEEL RELAXED
Among the best you can do is to tune your environment and figure out what is good for you. You would be wandering how to tune your environment but never mind though for it is what I am going to tell you. Before anything else, know that the environment refers to things around you physically that makes life comfortable for you. In this regards, a musician who likes music would often be seen at Pubs, Studios, Internet Cafe (listening to and downloading music) just to mention a few. Back to business, since maybe you want to become a business minded fellow, what needs doing is simple. Buy and read books about successful business entrepreneurs, go the internet cafe if possible, go to seminars involving business minded people, listen to and read business reports among others. Make sure every single bit of things you do, has business essentials in them. They would not only remind you of what you want to achieve but the motion that it can be achieved.
3. TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT YOUR PERSONALITY
This aspect counts so much as the others. Let me go the business way. I have realised that people who are into the business field always dress smartly. Most at times they are in suits. They do not waste enough time and looks smart too. Their mannerisms matters to them so much. Wherever they go, they speak business. Always ready to calculate and explore the least opportunities in all spheres. They believe they are business and as such have to tune their lifestyles. They would not be seen in drinking spots or the training pitch. Why? They believe that it would not help in any way in their field of profession. Even if the individual in question is a toddler, he begins to act like one throughout infancy. He wants to believe that he can and does so obviously. The way and manner in which he would respond to situations could tell one that, it is what he wants to be.
4. HAVE YOUR MIND SET UP FOR ANY EVENTUALITIES.
The one thing you should understand is that during times of pursing your ambitions, challenges and several set backs would pop-up but it doesn’t mean in any way that it is the end. Sometimes you need to keep quiet and take them with a pinch of salt. Why? They are the best that can furnish your testimonies. No great man comes up with no hardships or broken hear-ted in between. They knew full well that it is possible to happen. Nevertheless the actual time or date, they cannot tell. It depends on nature to decide then. They are rest assure though for no matter what, they can still make it through. It is the fundamentals of life. You should be happy when things like this happen to you. They would make you reason like a man and teach you the other side of life. They are meant to strengthen you in diverse ways you cannot tell yourself. When the setbacks come, just relax and believe there is a way out and surely there is always in life. Do not resign to fate just like that. Mind you, there is someone out there who is looking forward to you but you would never know until you quit. It doesn’t matter how many times you have failed but the number of times you were able to stand rejoicing after all. It is life and you can’t do better than that. When you believe in what you are doing, you do it right come what may. It is just as assuming that rain would fall and as such you have to do the washing and you do. If it remains sweet throughout, how would you know if there is something bad out there going on?
5. ENCOURAGE AND REMIND YOURSELF ALWAYS IN THE DAY
Do not forget that a thousand miles journey starts with a single step. If you don’t start it from you yourself, no one else would be ready to do that. When you were a kid, in cases where you fall down, you may want someone to help you out. Nevertheless as you have grown up, you believe that you should stand up on your own since there is no use for you to be there than stand. It is the same case here. Do not wait for someone to encourage you, no! Encourage and remind yourself always the way forward and you will never regret for doing that. It may be through that what you are doing is good but maybe the people around you might not utter the very words you want to hear them speak but instead discourage you. It is very down heartening when you think you are doing your best in one field when actually you are not appreciated. The fact is that, you are not doing it for them but for yourself who knows the benefits so much in all spheres. When sleeping, watching a television, playing games, cracking jokes with your lover, don’t just forget that, you have a life to live and a thing to be fulfilled. Even if you are in the lavatory, remind yourself that you have this mission to accomplish and I tell you, your attitude shall change then. When you stumble, it is where some people around you would say that why don’t you give up, after all no one has ever done it before; it is time wasting; it is better to stop now or else you will drop dead along the way. When you are lucky enough, you can have some good people not say anything at all. Sounds funny right? We live in a world where rationally everybody should be the others keeper. Why won’t assume you are the only living soul on the planet. Work things out for yourself and then you would know what ‘life’ is actually about.
6. ADMIRE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN YOUR FIELD BUT MAKE ONE YOUR DREAM CITY, NERTHELESS, BEYOND.
The one thing also which needs consideration is your admiration towards people who support your dreams but make do one only as a dream city. The main reason why you should admire people in the same field as you is because in this way, you can learn from them diverse ways of doing things. For instance, an upcoming footballer would admire footballers like Christiano Ronaldo, Lionel Messi, Raul Falcao, among others. Maybe from Ronaldo, he will learn how to shoot from long distance, dribble four or five players from Messi and how to finish off well, Falcao. Among them though, he might choose Ronaldo for he has the dribbling, afar shooting and good finishing. Nevertheless, I would advise you to dream beyond been just a ‘Ronaldo’ and making out yours for others too to learn from. When you don’t admire any one, although other factors would ginger you, it would not be as when you have a ‘director’ or a forward watch. The idea behind this admiration is that, whiles you are admiring someone, I may also be admiring you. Sounds silly? It is the fact. You either take it or leave it.
7. ASSUME YOU ARE THE FIRST OF THE KIND TOMAKE IT AND TALK LESS.
You should always take it upon to make the best out of what you are into. If you don’t, someone out there is ready to make it. Believe that you can bring something new into the world just like others would push you till the very end. I like to engage in conversations with people but nevertheless, I hate to complain when things tend to happen to me. It is bad to complain simple because if you don’t have a ‘good’ listener, you would have to rest and continue never. It is the least I would expect from you. The more you complain, the more you reduce the probability for you to move forward. Great men and women would tell you that complain does no good to you but actions, actions and actions. Matters most!