How To Make A Good Leader And Some Basic Qualities


By: Ashong David

You might have heard some thousands and one definitions about who a leader is. Apparently some qualities a leader should have. Do not forget that a leader is a servant and a smart thinker. A leader is not only able to see into the future but directs presents day works towards the years unborn. A basic quality like not self-centered is required. I will walk you through 5 paragraphs below explaining how to make a good leader and some basic qualities.
1. You should have the intuitive sense and capability to differentiate between selfish views and group views; More often than not, because you do not want to be seen as selfish, you tend to accept some other opinions. It is good to do this nevertheless not all views or suggestions would in the long run help the group. I tell you some members put their interest first and whiles been optimistic, would only benefits accrue to them. Some views maybe selfish in disguise. It is the main reason why you need to reason wide and fast. As the law of cause and effects, there is a reason behind every suggestion given by a follower

2. You should be broad-minded and always ahead; to be a leader as the word connotes means been ahead. The members or followers see you as their light and pathfinder. As a leader, you should always stay on top of information and strategies. This will make you confident in addressing or laying out a plan. Your followers would build more trust in you and are safe in all spheres. When they take a step, yours should be 3 or more of that. It is important for you to read wide and do more research in relation to strategies that can facilitate your ambitions. In light of this, you should be able to sieve through the chaff and make concrete facts available when initializing a plan. Always work with facts though risk taking also helps.

3. Sacrifice and not easily intimidated; Even if it is your last food you are about to take, sharing it with the followers who are hungry is a plus. Whether odd times or not, you should be able to respond to their calls and execute plans when needed. It is not always that things would be done conveniently, now. Be ready for times you would have to squeeze yourself and hope you were not even a leader. Never mind anyway, they are times meant to prove and strengthen you undoubtedly. Times, People and Circumstances would surely change. It is why you should stand grounds and not be move swiftly by them. Focus is needed if you want to achieve goals and set targets. Whether big or small moments, you should be able to stir them to suit the group inevitably. If you are able to stand pressure and circumstances from within, it is a stepping stone to the outside world. If you are easily downhearted, work on it. Be able to give all your best at all times.

4. Avoiding the blame game; No mountain is smooth to climb. Errors are bound to happen. Plans execution may be delayed by a single individual. Nevertheless, it does not call for a blame game. For doing this does not help now or sometime later. It is about finding lasting solutions and resolutions to problems encountered. The more blame you lay on someone the less productive the person becomes. Instead, share it as a collective thing and work towards it. No one individual interest matters than the group.

5. Be like an active follower; don’t misunderstand me anyway. In order for you to be able to see reasons in what others say also, you don’t have to see yourself as the leader and as such all wisdom’s in your archive. It is what has drawn many people backwards. You should be able to listen to followers who you think are smarter or smarter than you. In as much as you have the group at heart, you should be able to make do all possible means that would gear towards the achievements of collective interests. Mind you, not all your ways or suggestions would be right. It is in this light that listening and considering other followers opinions should be the stand point. Wisdom resides not in one fellows head. However, it does not mean also that, leaving all matters to be catered for by them. In as much as there would be some differences, possible means should be set out in order that you would be on track. It is very important to note that, it is somewhere or thing that you want to achieve and as such, all other hampering instances should be treated fairly.

Thousands and one qualities should be seen in a leader, nevertheless, some basics are a must.

Feel free to share your views on this topic. Your comments are warmly welcome. The likes and follows keep on telling me that there is someone out there who hears the growing voice in our time.

Writers Email:
Contact : +233570641434

How To Make Her Die For You


By: Ashong David


It is not about sending her to expensive restaurants, hotels or some other prestigious places. Showering her with a thousand dollar gifts and compliments are just like the latter. Exhibiting your manliness in-front of other guys would only make her hiss and that’s all. But if you consider the following 5 measures, she will treat you like a Prince. Sounds funny huh?

1. Make yourself simple; if you are employed, fair enough, it is good. If you are not also, it affects nothing. Relationship is built on trust and been real alone means you can be trusted. It pays to hide your identity. Some ladies can fake love and when you play someone else, it is very easy for their plans to work. However, if you explain things to her as they are on the ground, she can either choose to leave or be with you. The best times to experience with true love is when you are unemployed. True lovers would stay with you when in difficult moments. It does not mean that when rich you cannot. No. It is very simple, disguise yourself as one of the commoners and make the approach. Make her know that you are unemployed and not of a higher educational background when she asks. Be cool and relax when with her. When she loves you for who you are and not what you have, it is the best. Do not things that would impress her and never be jealous of her, less you would be teaching her how to harm you. Some guys would treat a lady like a Princess. I tell you, don’t. The idea should not even perch on your mind. If you do, she would treat you like a commoner. Be yourself even if she surprises you or angers you, if you have got to show it, do it. In any case you are hurting yourself when you don’t.

2. Make her know your principles; Times that she does what you do not like, tell her in a polite manner. When you hear a thing about her, ask her personally. When she asks for a pardon, forgive her and do not recount any of the issues thereafter. If ever there is any lifestyle she has and you think it is bad, tell her. Be like a moral guardian to her and in as much as you want her to respect you, respect her also. If for nothing, she will always remember the truth you tell her when the wrong doe’s. You cannot always be right so accept your mistakes when she does tell you too. Make her understand if that is the problem. Ladies like guys who are unique in everything or what they so much desire in. If you have to be that guy, I guess you to behave as such. If a girl claims she loves you and not ready to die for you, then it is lust. Do not play games with her. No! It never benefits man. If she cares to know about your personality, tell her in plain facts and language. Ladies wants to move with real guys who they can trust. If only you can stick to your own rules, it alone tells them, you can be trusted.

3. The Communication Factor; if you spend 10 hours with her over the phone, reduce this then. Reduce the moments you spend with her. Do everything possible to make her miss you. Do not always stay in touch with her as you used to and when you least do, do not flatter her but tell her things makes you love her so much. Cracks some jokes with her. Tease her often and when she said she does not like it, don’t give an ear to that. She really likes it anyway. You can tell her sweet words and always make sure that you have something special. Do not apologize often when she thinks you have done something wrong. Show some appreciation when she puts her efforts in doing something for you. If you do the calling, chats meeting every day, surely she is not going to miss you. Yeah. You should not in any way tempt her to see her reactions. She may pass though but it isn’t what it is.

4. Avoiding the blame game; No relationship is smooth. It is built like home, one step and then another. It all begins smoothly, has some hampering factors upfront until fate decides to the end. Whenever something goes wrong, do not argue or blame her but instead see how best things can be worked out again. Always share responsibilities and make new moves or plans from the past. It should only serve as a deterrent or yardstick in any case. Always sort out your differences within the shortest possible time and move on. After all, such is life and its concomitants. Not much can be done than that. Take her as she is and be genuine with her. She cannot be 100% as you think she should be so take a good look at something’s. They help. No one human being is perfect.

5. The Emotional Factor; if possible, always make sure that there is some physical contacts when you two meet together. Do not always have sex when you two are alone but sometimes. This is because the atmosphere counts a lot. For one like this, before engaging into romance, I have some cool music on the background, some blue lights and cool temperature. Do not rush into having sex with her, no. Do some foreplay for about 30 or 45 minutes by which time she would be wet. The kissing, fondling and mooching should take some time and then she would be at her emotional peak. Then you can go into her. Use the sex positions that would hit her G-spot. I tell you, after everything, she would always long for more so make sure you are always there to give it to her. When you satisfy her as she wants, coupled with the measures above, you a like a Prince to her. You are sure to be the best man on the planet. You would just be a different guy to her among the ones she knows. I tell you are going to be on her mind always.

Feel free to share your views on this topic. Your comments are warmly welcome. The likes and follows keep on telling me that there is someone out there who hears the growing voice in our time.

Writers Email:
Contact : +233570641434

How To Tap Into The Invisible World Of Energy


By: Ashong David


It is very simple to imagine yourself 20, 50, 100 years from now in as much as your plans profits you. It all depends on how you handle and treat circumstances around you. If you see them as they are, it is different from when you see them as a stepping stone to ‘there’. In 4 paragraphs, I will elaborate on how this could be done.

1. The Focus phenomenon: It is very important for you note that great men and women who ever lived and still alive made it all through a focused mindset. Being focus depends solely on what you engage yourself in, what you say, believe and see yourself with. All these things affect the way you go about your vision and the years unborn. No matter where and what you engage yourself in, make sure that they are in tune with your set goals and targets. Never divert one moment and when you stay focus, you can be able to see clearly the years to come and layout.

2. The Self Phenomenon: The fact you come from a wealthy home does not guarantee that 1000 years to come surely you are going to remain so neither been poor counts. Do not see yourself as you are and surely you can see your future self clearly. It is then that you can reason beyond your present self for a moment. What happens to you now or what you evolve yourself around should not intimidate you left nor right. Be real for short and do not forget that The Law Of Vibration is in effect in as much as The Law Of Relativity.

3. The Hopeful Factor: Never in anyway degrade yourself and compare yourself with people who are ‘higher’ than you. In this way, you can believe in yourself and ‘stand’ firm in instances. It is no good to rush because everything has a gestation period. Things can be done right-away but some can be done later. You are different from others and as the ‘heart’ to venture into this or that differs from theirs too.

4. The Master Planner: It is good to reason with others but nor for them to decide for you. You can agree with them on certain issues but it does not connote they drive the boat. You should be able to make some decisions on your own after a thorough investigation. Before making a move, know the inside and outside of it perfectly. The inside would mean the benefits you can get whiles the outside means the stumbling blocks. Reason wide and see opportunity in everything that you engage yourself in.

Being Focused, halting Inferiority Complex, Building on the Hopeful Factor and being in the driving seat, would make it possible for you to imagine yourself 20, 100, 1000 years from now. They have been tried, tested and proven to work.

I would like to hear from you too, so do not forget to comment and share your views with the outside world. Do some likes and follows, they just are my encouraging factors.


Dynamics Of Life


By: Ashong David

It is for no reason than the different objectives that needs fulfilling why ‘human’ is no equal to the other. When this is finally established, where do we head to next? The dreams too much, the plans so wide and our desires never stopping a bit, flowing from our mouths. The time has come and is now where humanity must know and understand the very purpose why to ‘exist’ opted instead.

The one-thing you do not have to forget is that a thousand milestone journey begins with a single step. There are thousands and one ways where one can be able to identify his or her purpose for existing, nevertheless, not all can be trusted. Among the ways are; the revelation from God, the use of the internet, Soothsayers, your intuitive senses, from the human perspectives.

The best so ever is the revelation from God and the use of the internet. Believe you me, God’s own is the best as the internet is 90% accurate. You can visit, or
They are quiet helpful and can make you certain for once. The Revelation from God are exhibited through dreams, prophets and ‘real’ Servants of God.

Here lies the case, you now know what you are asked to do here on earth. Let us take a step further. How is all going to start? What needs to be understood and how should situations be handled? It is good to learn, yes, nevertheless, some are a must. The fact that you live in this universe means you have to know the laws governing it. Make some research on the 7 Natural Laws of the Universe and be acquaint with them. They are basics you have to accept. Do not forget that Bill Gate, the most richest man and former CEO of Microsoft Co-operation, tapped into the Law of Perpetual Transmutation to exhibit this plan; someday, there would be Personal Computers which would need an Operating system each.

I do not believe in the ‘right’ time but the requisite cognizance and patience needed in a particular field. If you think the right time would come, it may make you relax and indulge in other activities that would be totally different from your set goals and visions. It is the main reason why you have to set a vision; 20 years to come, 50 years to come, 100 years to come, where do you want to see yourself? What do you want to put in place by then? They are what would make you stand firm and guard. It all needs patience and the requisite cognizance. Believe in God and believe in yourself that you can and so shall it be.

Nothing that last forever comes so easy to achieve. Life knows no rush and people who do so by pass ‘their’ opportunities that can be counted upon. Wealth, Beauty and Fame are in disguise and if you play cool, are a brother to them.

Life changes and it is the main reason why you should not be static in what ever you do. If being a Gospel musician is what God wants you to be, engage yourself in writing music, rehearsing famous Gospel Musicians, acting like one, listening and singing even at odd times. All this should be done diligently and no rush to make money out of it. When you begin to solve one problem or provide a value for which reason you should accrue money from what you are doing, so shall it be. You don’t have to chase money but it must to you.

Whatsoever that you do, remember the Lord your God. (Exodus 23:25 KJV)

Your comments, likes and follows are warmly welcome. They are what push me to write more of this.

Writers Email:
Contact : +233570641434

Thank you.



Life has evolved such that we need someone in our daily lives. So I say that we are not independent. We can choose to move forward or backwards, we always surely going to need someone in that corner or that corner. The most dangerous aspect is that they tend to make so much of our ‘equations’. When they are subtracted from the view point, it is then we ‘smell pepper’. The one thing about life is that unless we are faced with realities and raw mannerisms, we don’t know what is in it.
I will give you three different instances before I set the ball rolling. You go to church and the Pastor preaches and teaches the word of God. Before then he tends to bring some worship song and then raises his heads up to worship God. You stand there enjoying it, something tells you to raise your hand and sing out loud. Been in the spirit is what you thought to be the best. You can afford nothing more than raise your hands up and sing along. All of a sudden, you remember that you have your girlfriend whom you came with dressed beautifully in as much as you have you nice suits on. Finally, you feel reluctant doing those things that you have loved to do. You watched you colleagues whom you came with, those sitting and standing by you, those new chicks you are yet dilating your eyes for, new buddies whom think you that you would not come to church. Those friends of yours whom you once did bad things with, then you tell yourself, no I can’t.

A new day has come and everybody is in school. Class is in section and then the teacher asks a question. You know the answer full well but would not say it. You turn round and saw that beautiful girl sitting beside you. Your guys are already behind you. That brilliant girl is sitting in front of the row and everybody seems not to know the answer. You are very sure that you know it, yes, and you really know the answer. Nevertheless, you don’t want to. Better still it is entertainment segment, and everybody seems to be dancing happily. You know the new moves in the dance portrayed, you don’t want to. You look at your crews and you relax.

You wake up yet another day and there is food to eat. You thought of looking for a job but for what to eat and wear, it is no big deal. For some little monies you need for some stuff, you can have them from your brother. You eat, bath and sleep all day long. You thought of engaging yourself in some business venture but for your brother, you have relaxed for all that you would go looking for, he has. Your dad and mom are always ready t o give you their best. You reason for which you boycott any outings that may earn you some money.

Wows…take a look at the instances described above. You can choose to read over them again but mind you, there is always one similar thing ‘the factor domino’. In each case, there is someone who comes into the ‘equation’ to make it more palatable and comfortable indeed. You either consider this or that. Forgetting about what you want yourself or intended to do, you concentrate on other matters (factor domino). This makes you who you are not. Let us figure out some example here; you thought you promised yourself that you can hopefully do things that you planed of doing. You say yes and it is and not any, it remains as it is. With respect to the church issue, you would probably be underlying some factors which can hamper your ways of doing things. When sorted out, you are a free man. Although you feel brave enough and can decide on issues majestically, this time around you were not able to. In the case of being at home, it sounds not clear but plain in the eyes. Here, you tend to make your brother the ‘your soul saver’ in all matters. He does that for you and always seems to be there. When and when you need something, surely needs asking.
Take a good look at all circumstances very well and tell me what rings in your head. You would realise that it is someone who is ‘preventing’ you from doing this or that. It is what I call the factor domino. It works in everybody lives. That is the fact. I have some factors, you have and everybody has one.
The dangerous thing is for the factor to make more than half of your equation true. In most cases, because of the presence of those factors, we think to ourselves that our ‘equation’ is true. Meanwhile it is false in that without those factors we are not who really we are. Just imagine a world where your brother tends not to help or be in a good position to help you. And your dad or mom, not ready to help? How would life be for you? How would the taste be? Can you boast and stand on your own. It is good to eliminate all forms of involvements in life. It is then that we could tell that we are this or that.
If you really think you are who you are, then boldly go about your normal duties both at church, school, office among others. And then when you are not able to, it means that you are totally different from what you have in mind. I am not saying don’t ask Dad or Mom for money or thing s that would help you. No! What I say is this, until you decrease the space acquired by the ‘factor domino’, you are totally different. It is best when you know that you can be ‘independent’. Yes, just good to know.
Examine all other aspects in your life and tell me if you are who are really who you are.
Get this and every Monday’s Special. It is all for you and how to shape your character. Don’t miss it for there is something special for you. It is your life and mine as well. I care so much about you and can’t just stop till you grow better always. I love you all.
-Lin Collins



I ask myself if great men and women are still living here on earth and the answer is yes. Thousands and one have died as the same quantum live also. Are you wandering if they have any mystery at all? Yes they do. It is funny to know that there are as they are expressed in different situations. In this Wednesday Special Edition, I will walk you through 7 of those mysterious facts about them.
Not often than not, they are looked at to be leaders of a group or people who they move with. Everyone wants them to lead in decision making and decide their fate. They believe he has that character and personality and so is always called upon. God himself is in no way against them. The manner and mode of operation during any movements may sound strange but confidential in front of the people. (Numbers 27:18-19)

Where many and more would lose faith and decide on something else, great men and women would stand tall. (1 Samuel 17:24).This is to ensure that they can in the nearby future in their own circumstances. They reason fast and wide so as to put measure in place not to make them loose concentration for which reason they always triumph. (1 Samuel 17:31)

They believe everything has a reason. When finally convinced of something, they tend to monitor one or two situations and ask if they fall in line with the observations made. This is to ensure that they get full confidence on what is done around them. After everything though, it is time to choose when and how to add it to their ways of doing things. It looks simple to them as they have the passion for that. (Sirach 32:18-19).

Right from the scratch through to the times they are ripped for the outside world; their life is hardly met with smooth progressions. This serves as testimonies for the years to come. (Luke 2:7). Difficulties and challenges approach them from all angles but from natures bosom still they thrive on. (Matthew 2:13)

‘Nothing, nothing, just nothing is impossible here on this earth’ it is what they say. The idea that he can also make it keep them focused a bit. They always believe in themselves and hope for better days ahead. They know full that whiles others may discourage them because ‘A’ or ‘B’ was not able to make out; they go finding reasons why it wasn’t able to be done. They are relentless and play cool always. They believe if they don’t do anything now; it shall never be done later. (Judges 7:9-18)
They never care about what’s faced them but what they can make of it. (1 Samuel 26-27) They are always ready to explore the best of time and opportunities available for them. They sometimes make the best of bad situations. It tells what and who really they are. Their efforts are employed and hopefully, results are seen. When they don’t accomplish a mission, they feel sad and moody. Why? They see it as a failure. (1 Samuel 17:36-37)

Although it might seem that they are drifting off the road, looking at themselves and the way forward, it is no other option than to remain focus in order to achieve their dreams. What they hear, say, do, always tell more of their ambitious character to succeed and have a name of their own? Although they may succumb to some people to lead them, it is because of what they would get. (Matthew 3:13-15).Thus, they do not move for moving sake but what would help them achieve their set goals and targets definitely.



success in de
Slowly but magnificent in the atmosphere
So is success in the eyes of men
Who toil and find bones to eat
Which they so much cherish though
Slowly they would finally get what they want
Like the moon who would run not
Into coming out or going in
Surely someday would the desire destination
Until then, no resting on laurels
We shall surely bypass no disgusted honors
Which new born babies shall always until they eat solids?
There is a success in the moon
Not like its circle
Nor its bigger nature in small
But by it’s brighten status